[m134] Update infra to pick up recent changes from main branch

This is mostly to stop running on our Debian 10 VMs but includes a lot
of changes due to the lab move.

Bug: b/380037738
Change-Id: I8fc72ff0e377160a1d35b9a16f5ef3de354aca47
Reviewed-on: https://skia-review.googlesource.com/c/skia/+/973617
Commit-Queue: Kaylee Lubick <kjlubick@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Kaylee Lubick <kjlubick@google.com>
Auto-Submit: Eric Boren <borenet@google.com>
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